Ask This Before You Adopt

July 22, 2025checklist, buying, new owner, tips

Ask This Before You Adopt

Bringing home a kitten is exciting — but it's also a big commitment. Whether you're getting your new feline friend from a breeder, a rescue, or a private seller, asking the right questions up front can help avoid heartbreak (and vet bills) down the line.

Use this checklist before you finalize your decision.

✅ General Questions

  • How old is the kitten?
    (Kittens should be at least 8–12 weeks old before leaving their mother.)

  • Has the kitten been weaned properly?
    (Watch for signs of normal eating and litter training.)

  • What is the kitten's personality like?
    (Shy? Playful? Good with people or other pets?)

  • Can I meet the kitten in person (or via live video)?
    (Avoid sellers who refuse direct contact.)


🏥 Health & Vaccinations

  • Has the kitten seen a vet?
    (Ask for the name of the vet clinic and date of visit.)

  • Which vaccines has it received so far?
    (Core vaccinations include FVRCP, rabies, and sometimes FeLV.)

  • Is the kitten dewormed and flea-treated?
    (Most kittens need multiple rounds of deworming.)

  • Are there any known health issues or genetic conditions?
    (Especially important for purebred kittens.)


🧬 Breed & Background

  • Is the kitten purebred, mixed, or unknown?
    (Some buyers prefer pedigree; others just want a healthy cat.)

  • If purebred, can you provide registration papers or lineage info?
    (Avoid paying full breeder prices without documentation.)

  • Can I meet the parents or see pictures/videos of them?
    (This gives clues about temperament and size.)


📃 Paperwork & Guarantees

  • Will you provide a written contract or health guarantee?
    (Good breeders and rescues always do.)

  • Is there a return policy if things don't work out?
    (Life happens — ethical sellers understand this.)

  • Is the kitten microchipped?
    (Not essential, but recommended.)


🏠 Transition & Care

  • What food is the kitten currently eating?
    (Stick with the same brand at first to avoid stomach issues.)

  • Is the kitten litter trained?
    (Most are by 8–10 weeks, but ask.)

  • Do you have any tips for helping the kitten settle in?
    (The more info you get, the better your first week will be.)

  • Will you send a blanket or toy that smells like mom/littermates?
    (This helps with separation anxiety.)


🚩 Red Flags

Avoid sellers who:

  • Won't let you visit or video chat
  • Ask for deposits via gift cards or crypto
  • Rush you or pressure a sale
  • Can't answer basic questions about health or care

Final Advice

Don't rush. The right kitten — and the right seller — will stand up to your questions. And your future self will thank you for asking.

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